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Make This Thanksgiving the Best, Most Meaningful Yet

This post was created in partnership with NFDA.

A funeral director once told me the number one regret he hears at memorial services. It wasn’t, as I expected, that individuals wished they’d spent more time with loved ones – having one more birthday dinner or going to one last baseball game. The leading cause of remorse was all the questions they never asked, the conversations they pushed off because they believed there’d always be time.

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Preparing Your Best Holiday Playlist Ever, and a Secret About My Family

Now is the perfect time to create your best holiday playlist ever, songs to accompany all your upcoming dinners and celebrations. “Music is one of the strongest tethers we have to the past,” Kenneth Bilby, a former director at the Center for Black Music Research at Columbia College Chicago in Chicago, tells me. “It’s a critically important carrier of memory.” It’s with this notion in mind that I’m revealing a story about my family I’ve never shared. I hope you find it helpful as you plan your holiday playlist.

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HuffPost: Parentless Parents – Being Thankful on Thanksgiving

One of the most gratifying themes I uncovered researching and writing my forthcoming book “Parentless Parents: How the Loss of Our Mothers and Fathers Impacts the Way We Raise Our Children” is just how healing Thanksgiving can be for those of us who have lost our parents.

Healing, you say? Aren’t the holidays just a painful reminder that our moms and dads can’t be with us to celebrate with our children? Continue Reading